I really need a genuine advice ,Am married for 3yrs now. I can say I have never enjoy the marriage because we have been having ups and down breaking up for sometimes and getting back again like nothing happens, last week on Thursday I confess to.
My husband I don’t feel him and he should get another woman, the main reason me kusema hivyo ni juu ya how he treat me,anakuja kwa nyumba SAA sita ya siku akikula mogoka and he don’t Romance me and he don’t fuck me well, for all that 3yrs have been faithful to him even though he cheated several times but I forgive him because I love him and he is the father of my daughter.. Back to the story so that Thursday I told him Mimi sitakua nakuoshea manguo zako get someone to do that. Akachukua nguo zake and take them to her sister zioshwe,..
I never saw it as a big deal that same day sister ake akakuja kunitusi all kind ya matusi and told me “utatoka hapa ile madawa umewekea kijana yetu itakurudia soon” but I never respond any of it, i texted the hubby never reply aka kuja na kunishow “I don’t see the value of you in my house you should park your things and get out am tired with you” I never answer him anything nika nyamaza , every morning and evening swali ni hile hile bado ujetoka kwangu, toka kwa amani kabla nikupige juu amezoea kunipiga and i keep quite and now he don’t leave money for food plus he say he will never eat anything I cook juu anataka hizo madawa zangu zikuishe nguvu???, inabidi naenda kwa my parents to eat and go back to sleep, I have tell my parents everything and they know what I undergo but they support this marriage 100%..am an introvert person I don’t have place to go or friends, am just here crying daily..I don’t know what to do aki.
None of his family member want me because I don’t interact with any of them wanasema na wachukia so they want me to leave??????