Hello Please hide my identity. I totally need advice. Am 23 years old. I have been in several relationships that have turned out not fulfilling and onto the purpose. All in all I want to thank God that I found a good chiq, she is 19 at the moment. She is a girl every man would want and our first year of dating she was just marvellous and it was God had truly answered my prayers on finding the right girl.
But my problem with the girl is that she likes giving out her number aimlessly and later complains that men are disturbing her with the cash and texts.. We are in our 3rd year of our relationship. She has been through thick and thin with me until she got a job. I later found out that she has been texted by so many men such that she does so much just to please them and yet, I have the finances. She even went to the extent of asking money from other men, and as we know if a lady asks money from a guy, the guy will actually want something in return.
It was during a birthday that she made me angry. She got hooked up with some university guy and they held a birthday party that I never knew about. I had planned for her a birthday party but bad luck happened when I got suspended from work for 2 weeks during that period, thus I didn’t have money. I am a casual worker so I was a bit broke in the 2 weeks not working. Furthermore the birthday party was held secretly. What annoyed me most was that she even had the guts to post the pics of her birthday party in her WhatsApp status, being held so tight by the university guy. I am a man who has given her everything, her family is not stable, but I have done my very best by making her happy such that I have gone a extent of buying her clothes every week or buy her shoes every week.
What confuses me most is that she says she loves me. We do fuck many times but my wonder is why does she entertain other men in her inbox and mostly the university guy. They would also go out and rave, the university guy even posted her in his status claiming she loved her. The girl also knows his house and I also got photos of them taking selfies in his single room.By my view ,he loves her,he even wanted to have sex with my girlfriend but the girlfriend refused saying she was committed to me. Later I decided to confront her and ask her what she really wanted, coz we had passed through a lot together. I remember I got evicted on a bed sitter and moved in to a one bedroomed house with nothing in it,she was the only one who brought me bedsheets.
I must say I thank God coz, I got blessed, things began changing, I got a bed , sofa sets. In short I got evicted and began from scratch in a one bedroomed house and she stood there for me. It reached a point where she moved in to my house, we began living together. Am not that rich but we are satisfied coz she lacks nothing, am there to provide. Neither is the university guy rich, he is just a broke dude spoiling our relationship
Recently the university guy came. I came to realise that she had gone to visit him. She lied to me that she would still be at work till 10pm( in which it’s a normal routine in their work) ,Kumbe she went to meet with the University guy. And on the same same day, I bought her shoes just to surprise her. When I realised this, I got devastated..I asked myself what do women really want. I am totally sexually active..I can go upto 5 shots in a single night. So I kept wondering what the problem is?.
How they text, is not like friends. She has this problem of entertaining a lot of men in her inbox and yet she is has a committed relationship. And yet if she finds me texting women she is furious and As a result, I stopped texting other women and totally focused on my woman. As we talk now, they are planning a rave. How can you plan a rave right under my nose? I know now she is planning an excuse to go and see her mum.
I need advice konkifire.mobi.ke, I want to catch them red handed. What do I do?